JULIE GILLASPIE

Relationship & Love Coach

Get the 5 Foundations of Relationship Transformation

Create the strongest love relationship of your life. Feel seen, understood and valued.

Relationship Empowerment System

The Relationship Empowerment (RE) System is the proven signature coaching system I have developed through many years of helping people get empowered to create the lives and the love that they truly want.
The Path to Empowerment is not a ‘one size fits all’... so I have created several coaching programs to choose from, each with a different focus. 
Each program starts with a blueprint and is then completely customized to fit your unique relationship challenges and to help you reach your specific goals. 
Don’t wait to have the happiness and love you deserve. Find your way out of the struggle and into a stronger more fulfilling love and life, NOW.  

3 Tiers of the Relationship Empowerment System

Each RE System is built upon these 3 Tiers, which infuse the overall process of the coaching journey.
These 3 Tiers provide a ‘scaffold’ for the work we co-create during coaching. 

1. 5 FOUNDATIONS of Empowered Relationships
A visual model to help you see where you are, where you want to be, what your triggers and blocks are that are keeping you stuck, and exactly what you need to do to feel inspired to transform your current situation into one where you are fulfilled and empowered.  
2. 8 KEYS to Empowered Connection 
Learn 8 proven key steps to feel more seen, understood, valued…and connected! Each key includes specific tools plus guidance on how to apply them to your unique situation. 
3. Relationship Empowerment TOOLS
The RE system includes a variety of proven, highly effective tools/methods developed through the RE system + Additional Tools as taught by The Relationship School®. 

Relationship Empowerment Online Coaching Packages

I structure my coaching in PACKAGES, not single sessions so that I can serve you on the deepest level possible. 
I am also an Online Relationship and Love Coach. This means I coach people all over the world (UK, Ireland, Canada, Australia, USA) via online video calls.  
Online coaching makes it convenient for you to be able to receive coaching in the comfort of your own home, which saves you the time and hassle of commuting + keeps you from being limited to coaches/practitioners located only in your area.  
Not sure about online coaching? I totally get it! I used to feel the same way...until I tried it. 
Set up a time to meet with me online to have a deeper conversation and learn more.
During your Breakthrough Session, I will help you to: 
  • Get clear on your key relationship issues
  • Look at what may be keeping you stuck
  • Map out key steps to empower you in your relationship life
Then, if you are ready to go deeper and make real lasting change, we will pick a program and package that are the best fit for you...and off we go! 

The Coaching Framework

Relationships are a fast track to learning about our own vulnerabilities and triggers and often reveal parts of ourselves that are uncomfortable and hard to face. 
The good news is, if you are willing to do the challenging and rewarding work of learning how to get through your discomfort, triggers and fear, you will find deeper understanding & intimacy waiting on the other side.

As your Coach

I will help you tune into and develop a greater sense of self awareness and empowerment through relationship. My approach to relationship coaching integrates a model of personal responsibility + self and other attunement.
I will help you discover the beliefs or issues within yourself that may be keeping you from getting all you want out of your life and relationship. 
I will provide tools to help you to deepen into yourself, develop a greater understanding of your partner, and work toward your specific goals. 
I will both challenge and support you along the way, to help you to see your blind spots and to help you to realize the immense possibility you are capable of feeling and achieving.

So, ask yourself --- Am I ready to:

  • Stop repeating old patterns of behavior
  • Feel seen, understood and valued
  • Create a relationship that is a source of strength, energy, and deep connection
  • Get my needs and desires met
  • Understand myself as deeply as possible
  • Understand my partner (or the kind of partner I want to attract) on a deeper level
  • Express myself more fully and feel good about doing it
  • Increase my capacity to love and be loved
  • Stay more present and connected when I am triggered
  • Empower myself to stand in my truth
  • Navigate conflict quicker without sacrificing myself
  • Do the work to free myself up to live life to its fullest
If you answered YES to any of these questions... Let’s Connect

“I believe the greatest gift I can conceive of having from anyone is to be seen by them, heard by them, to be understood and touched by them.”

- VIRGINIA SATIR.