Create a fulfilling and empowering relationship where you feel seen, understood and valued​.

    Hello and welcome. As a therapeutic Relationship and Love Coach, I help individuals and couples who feel disconnected and frustrated in love to transform their relationships from a source of stress into a source of strength.


    That's right... You can have an intimate relationship that is actually a source of energy, strength, and renewal that infuses and empowers the other areas of your life.


    As my client, I will help you to create a fulfilling and empowering relationship where you feel seen, understood and valued.


    So, if you are tired of conflict, not getting your needs met, and feeling stressed out in your relationship, it's time to do something about it...


    ...because, let's face it - having deep meaningful relationships is the most essential piece to living a fulfilled life. (Re: 75 Year Harvard Study)


    Book a FREE Relationship Empowerment Breakthrough Session with Julie


    As a coach, I will work with you to help you transform your life through the quality of your relationships AND to gain more confidence, more choices, and more personal power in the process.


    The more you expand your awareness, the more you expand your capacity for connection AND the more you tap into the power you have inside of you to live in alignment with your most authentic self. This is the foundation of my work coaching clients.


    My coaching integrates a therapeutic style based in presence - experiencing emotion and sensation in the "here and now" - combined with tools to enable you to be more in tune with yourself and your partner. We will explore what is present for you now, what is lacking, and where you desire to go so you can create the fulfilling life and relationships you really want.

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      Gaining a deeper understanding of yourself empowers you to bring your true most authentic self expression to your relationships and to gain connection from that place. Instead of sacrificing your truth, squashing your inner voice, or succumbing to other peoples values, you get to hold yourself steady and solid and advocate for what you want and need. If you are a 'YES' to that, schedule a free consultation with me below and we will dive into exactly what you need to do to finally get the relationship you want:



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    • What my clients are saying...

      My clients experience profound results. Here is what they have to say in their own words:

      Holly & Bob - California

      Married 20 Years - Kids

      "Julie - Thank you so much for your gift of presence each session we have with you. I so appreciate you helping us to bring our love back into our relationship. You really are such a gift. My words cannot express the deep gratitude I feel for the gift of love you help us to unearth each hour we spend with you."

      Taylor, 34 - Seattle, WA

      Senior Project Manager - Single/Dating (Post 5 year Committed Relationship)

      "Julie has been instrumental in guiding me to develop relationship skills to create the confidence in standing up for an effective, loving, growth focused relationship. By challenging me to stick to what I say I want and pushing me to get clearer on what I want, I was able to unlock new possibilities."

      Cesar, 37 - Boulder, CO

      Purpose Coach - Long Distance Committed Relationship

      "Julie's ability to listen well and identify the core issue is a breath of fresh air. She has a wealth of tools and life experience that she brings to the work of relationships. Most of all, Julie is kind and firm, which I deeply appreciate in a coach. I would work with her again in a heartbeat."

      Joe & Brooke, Colorado

      Small Business Owners - 12 year Committed Partnership

      "Julie was incredibly helpful in resolving some issues that my partner and I were struggling to navigate. She brought clear perspective to our problem and offered several tools to aid us with our communication skills as well as our ability to handle conflict in a constructive manner. Since implementing the tools that Julie suggested, we have noticed a drastic improvement in how we communicate with each other and how quickly we are able to repair the relationship after conflict. Thanks Julie."

      Nina, Bellingen, Australia

      Separated Co-parenting Relationship

      "I had 6 sessions with Julie during a time of transition. I wanted to talk about my relationships as they were going through some major change. I was being asked to speak up for myself to people who weren’t treating me well. I found that my time with Julie covered so much, and that her perception was very attuned to my psyche and my inner growth. The conversations flowed naturally and I felt myself feeling more free and solid as a result. Julie uses the relationship work guided by Jayson Gaddis, whose work is wonderful, particularly, I think, because it doesn’t cycle over and over painful past experience, but it sits with the understanding of the past. The work invited a growing edge to emerge and inspired me to ask for what I want moving forward. As I write this, I remember the profoundness and usefulness of relationship counseling, as relationships are crucial to every facet of living. Thank you Julie."

      Mark, 44, Toronto, Canada

      3 Year Committed Partnership / Engaged

      "Our issue is that we are planning to get married and we wanted to go into marriage with our eyes open. We needed to look at several issues that we just had not gotten around to looking at. Julie was a magnificent help. She really holds the container and shows real compassion and discernment when it comes to who needs the attention, when to focus on someone, and how to get to the bottom of the issue. Several issues that were fights for us became unraveled as a result of Julie's gentle but firm coaching. As a result, we were able to work through a number of issues that both of us were a bit afraid to dive into before."

      Luisa, 30 - Boulder, CO

      Music Instructor - Single/Dating

      "Julie got right to the heart of my situation. In a very short amount of time, she was able to help me identify two core issues that were affecting the ways that I view my relationships, and she gave suggestions for how to further explore these issues within myself. If you are on the fence about whether to work with Julie, take the plunge--it will be worth it!"

      Gregg, 53, New York

      Writer & Entrepreneur - Single/Dating

      "Julie is a great listener and at the same time was very capable of challenging me on issues that were difficult for me to see. She is extremely present and helped me tremendously in seeing the areas where I lose connection in relationship. I recommend Julie to anyone that wants to go deeper and feel a more profound connection to themselves."

      Lisa, 33, Denver, CO

      Nurse - In Committed Partnership

      "I worked on a really traumatic issue with Julie. In addition to being incredibly supportive and compassionate, Julie was impressively perceptive, helping me to identify the parts of myself that I was judging, and skillfully guiding me through a process to help me dissolve the shame and guilt I was feeling. As a result of working with Julie, I was able to come to a place of acceptance and gratitude for myself, and also gain a greater awareness of how I wanted to show up and work toward becoming the person I want to be in this world. I highly recommend Julie's coaching- it was deeply impactful for me."

    • “It takes courage...to endure the sharp pains of self discovery rather than choose to take the dull pain of unconsciousness that would last the rest of our lives.”


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    • I offer a variety of coaching packages based on my signature Relationship Empowerment Breakthrough System that include personalized 1:1 coaching sessions, practical tools, email support, accountability & a lot more.


      Questions? Let's have a powerful conversation and see if we are a good fit to work together.

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      Julie Gillaspie
      JG, Ltd.
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